Playing dress up

What is it about girls who dress up that turns us guys on? Is it the fulfillment of secret fantasies? is it your caveman brain in your head telling your " lower brain in your other head" that this is someone else and you are spreading your seed?



Since my involvement of this sex toy store, Ive been enabled to try new things that i may not have if i hadn't been involved. one of my favorite activities to do with my girlfriend is to play dress up. To me there is nothing sexier than seeing her in a nice pair of platform heels with some white stockings and thong with a pleated school girl outfit ( librarian glasses optional).



Seeing her in that outfit with with those stockings really accents that firm apple behind and gets me rock solid every time. Sometimes she puts on a wig so a can fuck her from behind  and call her by another name or just see how sexy she looks as a redhead or a blond ( she does!!!).



Bondage tape is also a great way to spice things up in the bedroom creatively. I am a huge fan of Bondage tape  because of it's many uses. Sure i use it to tie her up in various positions. I just love being the dominant in our role play and i know that she loves getting tied up as the submissive. Stuffing a ball gag in her mouth to shut her up makes her cum hard within 5 minutes of penetration.



Another good use of the bondage tape is as an outfit. There is nothing like a tight shiny rubber looking skirt and bra on your lover using the Bondage tape and then topping it off  by using it as a choker around the neck. Wrap it around their wrists for a nice cuff bracelet to assist with a possible tie up.



Some girls might object to dressing up because they might think that it means that they aren't good enough for us as their natural selves. I see it as a tool to explore how versatile and dynamic they are as a person.



Everyone has their own personality but we create our personality from other personalities that we have come in contact with in our life, making them our own.  With these life accessories, costumes, bondage gear, wigs, lingerie..etc, we can experiment with becoming different parts of ourselves and really digging into who we are and what we are made up of. We can let out that libertarian part of ourselves in the bedroom to spice up our love lives and keep our relationships interesting.



We can be that student we were in school and act out that situation where our teacher keeps us after and seduces us. We can be the police officer that punishes their criminal in dirty ways that we may have dreamed about. we can be that dirty slut  or that asshole Man whore we have always wanted to be. We  can let go of  our everyday selves and discover more and more about our partners.



I always have said, regardless of status, all relationships , in and out of the bed are always based on trust and built and maintained with honest communication. I challenge everyone to try dressing it up with their partners and experiment with something that they haven't done at least once per week in the bedroom. Id be willing to bet that after 1 month, you and your partner will either regain your intimacy or take it to a new level and improve your happiness.

Please write back with any feedback and or recommendations.

Thanks again for reading,

Scott

moystoys.com

www.moystoys.com



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